Episode 17
Listener Q&A
Episode 17: Curious Minds: Your Questions Answered
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Podcast Related Questions
We delve into our reflections and aspirations for the podcast. We share favorite episodes and funniest moments, revealing the topics that have resonated most with us. We discuss our dream guests, with Christine hoping for an interview with Adele and Emma Arletta. We reflect on the surprises and challenges we have encountered while producing the podcast, and imagine potential crossovers with other shows. We also talk about upcoming topics we are excited about, such as navigating toxic family dynamics, finding one's true home, and exploring the concept of soulmates. Alexandra and Christine contemplate what success looks like for The Mirror Project in the coming years, envisioning its growth and impact.
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We open up about our personal interests and dynamics. We discuss the rabbit holes they can easily fall into, along with our current favorite shows, music, books, and activities. Alexandra and Christine describe the other in three words, reflecting on how our friendship has evolved since starting the podcast. We ponder whimsical scenarios like switching lives with a fictional character, our ideal lifelong food, and the era we would visit if time travel was possible. We share our favorite ways to unwind and consider what the male equivalent of receiving flowers might be. The conversation turns introspective as we discuss areas of self-sabotage, to our relationships with anger, and what are the performative aspects of our lives to where we feel most authentic.
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Transcript
Hello, and welcome to the Mirror Project.
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:We are your hosts, Christine,
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:Alexandra: and Alexandra.
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:Christine: and we are thrilled
to have you back with us.
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:We've missed you all so much,
and we're so excited to be
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:back just in time for summer.
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:hope you're ready for some sunshine,
fun, and fantastic conversations.
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:Today, we're kicking things off with
a special listener Q& A episode.
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:We've got some amazing questions from
you guys, and we can't wait to dive in.
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:So grab your favorite summer drink,
and Sit back and let's get started.
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:It's going to be a fun ride.
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:Alexandra: Before we dive in today's
topic, like, subscribe, or follow us
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:on your preferred listening platform.
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:Go ahead, pause, and do
it now before you forget.
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:Don't worry, we won't
get started without you.
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:Christine: All right.
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:So we got so many amazing questions
from you all that we decided to
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:break them up into two parts.
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:So we're going to start with
podcast related questions.
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:And I will say, I know I put together this
outline for the episode, but did I think
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:about the answers to these questions?
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:Not a whole lot.
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:So I'm going to be winging it and it'll
be fun to see what comes out of my mouth.
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:Alexandra: I feel like that's every
episode that Christine will plan, but
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:then it's just, hey, in the moment.
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:Christine: then it's authentic.
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:Alexandra: Yes, and it's real
and it's fun and we get to bring
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:everyone along for the ride with us.
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:Christine: I don't want to overthink
things too much because I'm, I
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:classically do overthink things.
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:But anyway let's get started
with these questions.
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:Alright, so one is what's been
our favorite episode so far?
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:Alexandra, why don't you kick us off?
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:Alexandra: Oh, wow.
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:Okay.
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:Okay.
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:So Before we jump into that, can you
believe that this is our 17th episode
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:and we only started in February?
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:So we have quite a lot of
episodes to choose from.
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:Christine: I can't believe it.
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:I still, sometimes I'm
like, wow, we're doing it.
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:for such a long time.
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:It was just this idea,
but now we're doing it.
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:And it's wild that we're on 17 and
we're answering your questions What
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:Alexandra: I really like our
sayings and mantras episode.
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:I thought that was really cool.
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:I feel like we keep
coming back to that one.
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:Yeah.
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:I was like hitting the ground running.
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:I've also enjoyed the ones where we've had
guests on like my friend Traveris does.
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:That was really fun because she
always brings such inspiring
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:questions to the conversation.
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:So we do little teas
for later in the year.
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:We have an episode coming up with her
where we kind of cut the small talk.
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:So that was super exciting.
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:And wow.
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:I mean, there's really so many, those are
the couple that are sticking out to me.
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:What about you, Christine?
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:Christine: I agree with you.
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:I episode two sayings and mantras.
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:We is definitely one of my favorites.
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:And it's also been one that I think has
resonated with a lot of people because
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:I've had people come up, say to me, wow,
I loved that sayings and mantras episode.
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:So that feels so good knowing that we
kind of, you know, hit it out of the park
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:with that One of our first topic episodes.
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:So sayings and mantras.
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:think.
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:I did really enjoy our conversation.
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:Oh gosh, I'm blanking on episode titles.
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:The one where we talked
about self confidence.
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:Am I confident?
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:Hello.
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:Alexandra: Ooh, that was a good one.
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:Christine: one.
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:That was one where I felt like I really
Went deep and was vulnerable in a
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:way I hadn't yet been on the podcast.
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:So,
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:I really enjoyed that one.
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:Sort of peeling back more layers
and getting to the heart of things.
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:And then most recently I loved
the episodes we did with our moms.
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:Alexandra: Was really fun.
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:That was,
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:Christine: And having them on was so fun.
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:I really loved it.
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:Alexandra: I really liked the two
part format because it allowed us to,
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:you know, take people who've been so
instrumental in our lives and really
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:devote specific times to parts of
that relationship, which was cool.
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:Christine: Yeah, I agree.
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:Alexandra: I am actually having
to look back at our calendar to
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:remember all the episode titles.
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:I really enjoyed the forget balance
episode, the one I was like, you know,
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:go crazy, join a cult, then start one.
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:That was a lot of fun.
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:And I remember in the episode, I was like,
I don't really love the word balance.
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:Cause we don't want to be still.
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:And then a coworker of mine was like
said she likes the word harmony,
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:like a harmony between Work in
light, like work, life harmony.
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:And I was like, Ooh, I like that.
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:Cause it's, you know,
it's kind of a dance.
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:So, that just made me think of that, but.
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:Christine: That's really cool.
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:Cause I think it also speaks to the
reality of how life can be, right?
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:Like it's never truly 50, 50.
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:You're constantly like trying to find.
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:Steady ground, but harmony
allows you to flow with it.
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:And that's a good way to look at it.
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:Very cool.
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:Alexandra: So what has been the funniest
moment to date, or if not the funniest,
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:what have been some of the funniest?
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:Christine: Well, it's always pretty
funny when we sit down to record, cause
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:I feel like as soon as I press that
button, I'm like, what am I going to say?
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:So as Alexandra has mentioned, we have
to put a blooper reel out there because
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:there's so many funny things of like us.
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:Me messing up and
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:Alexandra: We both do.
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:It's not just Christine.
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:Christine: but let me
think, has there been a.
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:You know, I've really loved
having Nicole on, my sister.
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:She, I always laugh so much.
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:So I feel like whenever she's on or
when my other sister Tori is going to
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:be joining us for a future episode, I
can just imagine like having them on,
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:it's going to be a lot of fun and can't
wait to see what Tori brings to the mix.
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:But how about you, Alexandra?
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:Alexandra: I love it.
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:So we try to really like outline
script, some of our intros and closings
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:to keep it keep us from rambling.
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:Cause I think we can kind of,
we can get into a flow and Oh
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:my gosh, let's keep talking.
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:So to kind of keep us.
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:Tailored in and stuff.
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:We try to write them
out and they're great.
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:They're funny.
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:And then we'll sit down to record.
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:And we're like very serious, dead on.
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:I'm like looking at Christine.
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:I'm like, okay, we're saying this
and then serious moment, but our
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:mouth goes off and it's just like
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:Which we're like, okay.
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:And so then we laugh for
like about a half a minute
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:Christine: It's
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:Alexandra: and we're like okay.
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:Christine: I read a word, but my mouth
says a different word, or says it
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:combined words or I say, I don't know.
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:It just is kind of,
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:Alexandra: Or even if we don't have
something scripted and we're talking
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:about something and like you can
tell like we were thinking something
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:but our mouth went the other way
and we're like, what happened?
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:It's just
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:Christine: because that happens.
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:And I'm
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:Alexandra: What was I saying?
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:I was like,
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:Christine: I don't know where
I with this, but here we are.
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:Alexandra: Yeah, I know.
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:I think this is why we have to release
a blooper reel so people can join in
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:on some of the laughters and the gaffs
that we've had, because it's just
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:been, it's, you know, been quite funny
and totally randomly out of the blue.
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:We're in a good flow.
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:We're doing things.
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:And then suddenly it's Oh, now
we've got to get back on the tracks.
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:Similar to the first question,
one of the questions I got
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:was what's the favorite topic?
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:What is our favorite
topic discussed so far?
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:Christine: It's a really good one.
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:I always love the topics when we get deep.
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:I love when we talked about books and
our interest, because that's like a
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:really good insight into who we are and
we get to geek out and, all of that.
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:But I always love the topics where we
sort of keep peeling back those layers.
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:So like, I, the uh, Am I
confident episode or there's even
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:Alexandra: What
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:Christine: this.
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:Yeah, bravery.
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:There's even some coming
up this month where
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:flow and we I love it when we confront
topics where I've always feel a
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:little bit uncomfortable about it Not
because I don't want to talk about
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:it but because like I really have to
think about how I feel about these
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:situations because I think a lot of
people Or, I'll just speak for myself.
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:When when I'm faced with something that
makes me feel uncomfortable, it's hard
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:for me to continue facing it and dig
deep as to okay, why am I uncomfortable?
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:Is it because I what's,
it because of this?
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:Or is it something else that I don't
even realize but it's affecting
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:me when I Facing these situations.
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:So for me, those are my favorite
topics, but, what about you?
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:Alexandra: I enjoy that we're
doing some of those deeper
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:dives and we're definitely, I
feel like gaining traction and.
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:Delving further into those.
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:But I loved some of the ones that
we just kind of are in sometimes
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:balanced out with that the lighter
and like the pack your bags.
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:It's time to fly because
we both love to travel.
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:So I really like that.
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:Trying to think I'm looking forward
to some of the ones that are coming
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:up this month with your sister.
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:I like, I don't know.
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:I just like the variety of stuff we cover.
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:I think instead of just a
specific topic, I like that.
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:We cover a variety.
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:Cause people ask me like, Oh,
what's your podcast about?
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:And I would say, Oh, we
pick things that we cover.
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:are drawn to or we're dealing with and
that kind of guides what we're doing
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:versus being a sole topic podcast.
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:So I enjoy that part, which makes it
then difficult to say, what's my favorite
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:hands down topic that we've discussed.
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:Christine: Yeah, definitely.
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:I, yeah, I always, I think about it more
broadly and, you know, we've only done
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:one so far, but we plan to do more, the
history focused episodes was like the St.
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:Patrick's day when we did was
really fun to research and
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:Alexandra: I think
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:Christine: flow.
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:So I look forward to more of those.
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:Alexandra: we have what one,
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:maybe two or three, definitely
at least two more, I think.
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:this year.
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:Christine: coming out this summer and
then I can't remember when the next
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:one's coming But yeah, so stay tuned
more history focus episodes to come
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:Alexandra: Okay.
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:Dream guest, Christine.
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:Christine: dream guest
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:are we gonna be like completely realist
really like completely unrealistic or?
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:Alexandra: Okay.
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:Give me what we think is
unrealistic right now.
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:And then what you think
is realistic right now.
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:Christine: dream guest would
be my favorite artist of all
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:time right now, which is Adele.
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:I fucking love her so much.
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:I
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:Alexandra: She's so funny too.
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:Christine: so funny, and I feel like I
would just love to have a conversation
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:like we have on here with her.
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:We could go so many
different ways with it.
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:And she's just is the way she thinks
about life she things that have happened
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:to her and like moves forward with that.
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:It's just so cool to me how she's
a wonderful example of somebody who
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:continues to put in the work to add
anything she does her professional
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:life, her family life, her, like
even her relationship with herself.
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:It's really something I've.
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:watching and as a fan have always been
rooting for her, not only, with her
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:music, but just she's out there just
trying to live life like the rest of us.
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:And I really would love to
just talk with her about it a
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:bit more, but maybe one that.
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:In time, I think could be achievable.
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:Alexandra: We
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:Christine: don't know.
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:We'll see.
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:Alexandra: have to dream for the
stars and then make it happen.
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:Right.
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:Christine: What about you?
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:Alexandra: Oh, well you
didn't answer the second one.
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:Who's a bit more realistic right now that
you think we could in the next year or so.
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:Christine: You know, there, we up our
favorite influencers that we follow
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:in the body health and body episodes.
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:a influencer I found about.
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:A year ago, her name's Emma Arletta.
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:She is a plus size influencer,
and I just really love her vibe.
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:She I always enjoy her content.
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:She seems really sweet, and I think
it would be fun to have her on, and
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:we don't even have to have the episode
focused on body acceptance and the body
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:positivity movement and things like that.
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:I think she would just be a fun
person to interview cause she's
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:in, she's doing modeling now.
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:She's, had a whole life prior to becoming
like doing the influencer life full time.
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:She I think.
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:don't know if she was a speech
pathologist, but she had this whole
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:other career path that she was on
and was doing social media on the
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:side and got to a point where she was
able to make it her full time job.
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:So I feel like that would just be a really
interesting conversation of this wasn't
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:the life you, the job you are expecting
to have, but it sort of just grew.
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:And it'd be really cool to talk
with her about all of that.
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:Alexandra: I think that
would be a great episode.
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:You know, I don't know that we're fed
a story that when we're younger, but
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:I think I had this idea that, okay,
life is going to follow a set of
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:Pre prescribed orders and thing.
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:And
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:Christine: Yeah.
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:Alexandra: as Christine can attest
to have, we have both learned
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:that life does not follow that.
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:So it'd be very awesome to have somebody
who very almost publicly has shown
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:that shift, which would be awesome.
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:Christine: Cause like when you're
little, made to seem like, Oh,
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:there's these tracks that you can,
you pick what track you want to take.
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:And then you're mean to think
it's an easy shot from there or
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:it's a simple shot from there.
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:Not necessarily easy.
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:But it's really not how that it's really
not how it works as I've been rudely
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:awakened to realize, but yeah, but.
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:What about you, Alexandra?
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:Alexandra: so interestingly, kind of
more on the topic of dating life partner
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:or kind of, you know, what is it like?
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:In that field.
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:What are women hearing?
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:What are men hearing?
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:I would really love to get somebody.
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:I've probably started
following in the past year ish.
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:And his name is Will Hitchens.
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:I think I've mentioned him on an episode.
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:But he's out of Australia and I just
really enjoy his content and his content.
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:Perspective and his take, because he
talks about a lot about the male space
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:on, you know, social media and how
that says, if you're not a certain
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:way or like an alpha male kind of
thing, then you won't find females.
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:But I like how he responds to it.
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:And he's Hey, I used to listen
to that and think it was true.
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:And then what it's like
coming out of that.
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:And so it's really helpful, I think, to
see what women hear and then what Men
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:can hear and then where is the reality?
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:So I think that would be kind of fun.
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:And then Somebody maybe
a little bit sooner.
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:I really enjoy talking to Melissa
Sparrow she's somebody I know in
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:Canada who does Akashic record
reading and shamanic healings and as
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:people if you've been listening for
a while, you know that Christine and
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:I are into all the things, all the
witchy vibes and the spiritual stuff.
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:So I'd love to have her on and talk
about that with you all listening
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:and share with you guys another part
of me and what Christine and I like.
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:So those are, I think the two like
current dream guests right now
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:Christine: Nice.
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:it happen.
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:Alexandra: would love
to have Adele on too.
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:So.
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:Christine: that one's
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:Alexandra: I think we
didn't make these for,
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:Christine: but who knows?
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:Yeah.
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:Okay.
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:This one was a fun question.
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:What has surprised you about making
the podcast as you continue to record?
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:I've never really thought
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:it.
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:It's a fun one.
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:Alexandra: I haven't either.
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:And, you know, I was actually weirdly
thinking along this and I hadn't
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:read our outline until basically
this morning for this episode.
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:And this past week is Christine can attest
to, I have been working on a project
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:for my MBA in a negotiations course.
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:And it's an audio visual thing
with a group of four and we're
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:So it learned some new skills on
PowerPoint, which is kind of cool, but
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:surprised me about making this podcast
is how much more comfortable I am now
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:kind of allowing my voice and what
I'm saying to be recorded and not.
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:freaking out about it so much.
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:I think when I first sat down to record
on my slide for that PowerPoint, I was
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:like, Oh my gosh, it's, it was first
of all, learning PowerPoints recording
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:versus what we use here for this podcast.
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:Christine: Yeah.
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:Alexandra: it's okay.
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:But then something happened and
I think somehow my recording
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:for my slide got deleted.
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:So I had to redo it like Thursday night.
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:And I was actually here at my
desk, had my mic hooked up and I.
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:Clicked it and I was like,
Oh, this is, I know this,
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:with this.
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:I can do this.
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:So I enjoyed that as we continue doing
this, I'm getting more comfortable
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:speaking in other parts of my
life and putting myself out there.
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:But in terms of the podcast, I kind
of think it's, we'll start with one
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:thing where it's okay, we want to talk
about X, but then X will morph into
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:And sometimes I'm like, wow,
we could really talk about.
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:this one topic in many different ways.
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:So I think that constantly surprised me.
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:I'm like, okay, we're going to do this
and this is what it's going to be.
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:But we were just talking about
with Emma Arletta, like life
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:goes in a different direction.
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:So being able to flex and adapt with that.
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:Christine: Yeah.
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:For sure.
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:Alexandra: What about you, Christine,
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:Christine: to
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:point you were making, like there was
one episode in particular that the
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:balance episode where I thought I going
into it, I was one way, but as we were
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:having the conversation, I was like,
wow, talking about it, talking it out.
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:was realizing like, well, maybe this
there, what I thought isn't what I
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:thought it was going like, how it's
going to feel about it, you know?
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:So of course, when we sit down and
we think out, okay, the topics we're
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:going to discuss and the outline
we're going to have for that episode,
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:it isn't until we start actually
having the conversation that.
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:A lot of times I sort of discover
my thoughts and opinions on things
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:because when you listen to another
person share their feelings, it not
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:necessarily changes my opinions, but
it gives me a new way of thinking
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:or a new perspective on something.
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:And then so like that avenue
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:Alexandra: mull it over.
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:And
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:Christine: So.
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:I would say that's been the biggest
thing when it comes to recording.
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:But also I feel like as me personally this
project has really helped me build back
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:my confidence in a way that I've mentioned
before at the about a year ago, I was sort
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:of just totally Down, wrecked, depressed.
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:My job had really done a number on my
self confidence and my mental health.
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:working on this project and
making this podcast reality
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:has helped me in so many ways.
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:And I'm, I mean, I think back to
the first episode when we started
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:recording and Sitting down, like
in thinking about it, I'm like,
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:But once you sit down and you hit
that record button, you're like, whoa.
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:But
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:Alexandra: I want to say as, you know,
thinking back to that first episode
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:The last episode we released,
I have seen you grow just in
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:I mean, you and I can see each
other recording, but right
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:You can hear how much more comfortable
and confident you've gotten your voice.
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:So I, I liked that.
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:And I think it'll continue to
surprise both of us how much more
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:confident we'll get, but it's been
wonderful to see you grow that way.
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:Christine: you.
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:that's such a sweet compliment.
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:Thank you so much.
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:Yeah, I think it's like what you said,
I've really I found a comfortability
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:in voicing my, how I feeling and
my thoughts and opinions on things.
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:And not that I never, that wasn't how
it was before we did this podcast, but
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:this it's, it's just different now.
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:And I,
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:Alexandra: Yeah.
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:Christine: I'm loving it
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:Alexandra: And it's kind of different
to do it with your friends and
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:talk about it, but then to also go.
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:I'm willing to put this out
there and whatever comes back and
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:whoever listens, which is awesome.
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:And both frightening.
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:Christine: Yeah,
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:Alexandra: one more thing on the,
what surprised us is I think it
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:surprises me in a very good way
that our outlines seem to evolve.
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:I mean, we follow a similar pattern
because it's helpful, but I think as
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:we get more comfortable we kind of use
cues and stuff, but then I, when we go
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:back to write show notes, I'm like, Oh,
I have to remember, I have to write down
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:what we're saying while we're saying it.
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:Christine: definitely.
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:Alexandra: but I think, you know, before
it was like we needed a lot more structure
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:and now it's has opened up a lot.
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:So I'm excited to see where
those go in the future.
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:Christine: me too.
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:Yeah, it also might be fun to test some
other other ways of approaching episodes
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:just to sort of mix it up and see.
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:You never know until you try, right?
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:Alexandra: And since it's pre
recorded, we could always scrap it.
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:Christine: Exactly.
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:All right.
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:This one's fun.
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:If you did a crossover with
another podcast, would you choose?
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:Alexandra: Okay.
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:So This may surprise you.
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:I'm not a huge podcast listener.
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:I think of the two of us, Christine
is definitely more in the know about
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:different podcasts, but the only one I
can think of at the moment is rituals,
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:which is, I think kind of what you
introduced me to that podcast on Spotify.
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:And I think that was an
offshoot of those creators.
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:First podcast.
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:That's why we drink.
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:So that would be kind of cool because I
mean, as we've both mentioned, Christina,
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:you're very much like witchy stuff.
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:And I think it would be kind of cool to
do a crossover on some topic that they
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:haven't covered or if they're still going,
I'm not sure haven't listened in a while.
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:But my mom really likes the
podcast, the importance of sleep
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:or something, nothing much happens.
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:I think that would be really interesting
to do because the creator creates
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:podcasts to help people fall asleep.
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:And that's so very different from
what we're doing as a podcast that
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:I think that would be kind of cool.
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:Christine: be cool.
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:Yeah, I need to check that one out.
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:Your mom has talked several
times to me about that.
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:I'm like, wow, that's really fascinating.
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:Alexandra: What about you, Christine?
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:Christine: well,
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:like Alexander mentioned,
I consume a lot of things.
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:Podcasts being one of them.
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:So there's a lot to choose from.
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:But Okay, so there's one podcast that
I've started to just sort of follow.
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:I don't listen to them religiously
or anything, but the Lautners, the
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:Taylor and Taylor Lautner, they have a
podcast called the squeeze And they,
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:each episode, I don't know if it's
every episode, but they usually have a
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:cast come on and they kind of approach
conversations like we do, but they they're
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:Alexandra: Mm hmm.
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:Christine: and that sort
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:Of space, I think so a podcast
that's similar to ours, I think that
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:would be kind of a fun one to sort
of, have a crossover episode and
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:just maybe Talk to them about how
we're similar, how we're different.
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:But then I'm also, what got me into
podcasting was uh, not, not that big
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:of a surprise was crime podcasts.
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:I've listened to a lot of
different true crime podcasts
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:some that are like limited series.
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:The one that I've listened to
the most is called Crime Junkie.
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:Each episode is focused on a
different case it's really quite
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:fascinating because and I'm, I
really admire the work that they do.
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:They've built such a following and
they Bring new light and voices to
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:these cases that have gone unsolved.
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:Some for decades, some for just, you know,
like it doesn't matter how long it's been.
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:They give voices, voice to these
cases that are still not solved.
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:And as a person who's, who
always loves a good mystery I've.
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:Really enjoyed listening to
the work that they've done.
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:And I'd be really cool to just.
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:Talk with them and even sort of get
an inside look into how their creative
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:process and how they construct their
episode and the research involved.
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:And they have a an amazing
team that does a lot of the
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:groundwork for them and research.
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:And, but there's so many there's
so many great podcasters.
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:Alexandra: Definitely would love to
stick it to a point where we, for
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:like research heavy episodes, we
could have a team helping us do that.
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:Christine: Would be awesome.
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:Alexandra: yeah.
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:Which when you were talking about the
crew, true crime junkies, it made me
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:remember that there is a podcast I
have not listened to, but I started
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:following the account on Instagram.
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:And she's just very engaging.
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:And I think I've sent you one
of the trailers for an episode
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:and I was like, did you know?
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:And I'm like, this is so cool.
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:I think it's called for the
love of history podcast.
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:And you know, as we talked about
we kind of want to do some more
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:history based research episodes.
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:And I think that would be a cool
opportunity to crossover because somebody
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:who does like predominantly history
focused episodes for us to learn about.
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:What we should do more for those.
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:That'd be cool.
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:Christine: That would be really fun.
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:I would love that.
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:All right, here we go.
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:Any, has there been any topic
ideas that we've scrapped?
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:And what are they?
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:Alexandra: So I don't think we've
scrap scrapped any episodes.
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:Christine: Yes, as we've mentioned,
spent a year prepping and coming
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:up with ideas for this podcast.
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:So we have a document that is a mile long.
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:With so
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:exactly with so many ideas that we
haven't necessarily scrapped anything yet.
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:But we have a whole bunch that we
didn't get to or plan for this year.
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:So there's definitely more to
come in the coming year on that
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:Alexandra: I definitely think when we
were planning our year out, which we
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:are coming up to our timeline to do
that for:
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:we're like, okay, well, we already have
a lot of that type of content coming up.
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:So maybe we.
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:Postpone this one topic
until the next year or so.
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:Christine: Yeah,
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:Alexandra: yeah, it kind of feels like
the, you know, how topics have evolved.
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:Like we haven't really scrapped anything.
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:Christine: Yeah.
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:But maybe just to tease a little bit there
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:Alexandra: definitely.
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:I
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:Christine: a couple I'm
looking forward to, let's see.
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:family members.
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:We have to, was one that I
think we both would love to talk
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:about, but haven't gotten to yet.
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:Let's see, finding your home.
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:is where people notice
that you're not there.
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:I think that's such a beautiful
quote by Alexander Heyman.
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:what else?
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:Alexandra: feel like there
was one about soulmates and
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:how they show up in our lives.
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:Christine: Yes that, that's
one topic I think both of us
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:are kind of excited about.
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:And what is a soulmate?
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:cause I feel like there's so many
different kinds of soulmates out there.
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:I personally think that.
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:So yeah, guys, there's so many
things, habits and rituals.
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:What else?
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:Alexandra: I think we had talked
about maybe doing like Love
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:sex and taboo or something.
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:That would be kind of fun
delving into that realm.
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:Christine: Yeah, most definitely.
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:And then I think there's so many
we just touched on it briefly with
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:our first two part episode about
body image and health, but health
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:in general, there's so much to that.
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:So,
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:Alexandra: Definitely
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:Aspects like mental,
physical, emotional health.
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:I mean, even spiritual health
at many points of our lives.
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:Christine: yeah.
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:So so many, nothing has been scrapped.
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:Nothing is off the table.
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:That's for sure for the
both of us, but yeah,
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:Alexandra: And I definitely think
that there's topics that we've
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:already covered that we're like, we
want to come back and follow up on.
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:So those will get re
added to the list as well.
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:Christine: Definitely.
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:Alexandra: So Christine last
question around the podcast, what.
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:Does success for the mirror
project look like for you?
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:And I
579
:Christine: So it's so interesting to
think about this because this for me
580
:was just a fun creative project that
I wanted to do with my best friend,
581
:but as we were planning and coming
up with what this could be and think
582
:about what the future could be.
583
:There's so many different
things I hope for.
584
:Well, I sure hope that we continue to
do, we're continuing to do this the
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:next two, three, maybe even five years.
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:I.
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:Gosh, I would love for this to
grow and become my full time focus.
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:Maybe even be the start
of a podcast company.
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:And there's like different
podcasts that are underneath
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:the mirror project umbrella.
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:Like you mentioned our
topics are so varied.
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:It might be fun to have a podcast
that's focused on one specific thing.
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:But.
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:Alexandra: think also in that
supporting other podcasters who.
595
:are interested in a similar format or
have a similar approach be so cool.
596
:Christine: for this to grow
and, support other podcasters,
597
:but also so their philanthropic
work is a big passion of mine.
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:So I would love for this to
benefit that in some way as well.
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:Wow.
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:There's so many, my
mind's just spinning right
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:you?
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:What do you think?
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:What's success look like?
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:Alexandra: similar to Christine.
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:I think in a practical sense for the
next year, I would really love to see
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:the show support itself in terms of,
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:I would love to have You know,
sponsors and listeners support us
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:so that we can continue creating
us for the listeners, which is
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:partially a lot of why we do this.
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:I also love getting to spend time with my
best friend recording this and creatively
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:expressing myself through a different
type of project than I normally do.
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:But yeah, I'd love to see our audience
grow and our community grow and
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:really support itself and take off.
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:Cause I would love to see that.
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:But yeah, I would love to see
us get our own recording space,
616
:like not just our rooms, but like
a dedicated space or something.
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:So that'd be fun.
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:Christine: love that.
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:Alexandra: So.
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:we have our short term goals
and our long term goals.
621
:And I love that.
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:Christine: yes, that's what, that's,
you know, that, that makes it easier
623
:to constantly work towards something.
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:So yes,
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:a lot of a lot of hope for the future
of this and I'm excited to see it
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:grows and evolves because like we
said, there's so many ways this could
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:go and were here for whatever happens.
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:Alexandra: Also success wise,
I'd love to see have more
629
:engagement with our audience.
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:So that, that would be a huge, I feel
like a benchmark, a mark of success
631
:Christine: would love to
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:an element where we have listeners
either call in or come on and like
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:a guest for a segment of the show.
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:I think that would be so fun because
right now the way we're engaging
635
:with people is just through our
social media and that's great.
636
:I love that too.
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:But I want to see how far this could go.
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:Alexandra: I do want to say that we
have seen success that we started people
639
:have donated to us, which is awesome,
which helps us keep funding this.
640
:Our listener base has grown.
641
:I feel like we have pretty
good audience engagement with
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:Christine: god,
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:Alexandra: and listen.
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:So I have to remember as
much as we want to grow.
645
:We can also celebrate the
fact that Hey, we've done it.
646
:Like you said, Christine earlier it's
kind of hard to believe Oh we're doing it.
647
:So.
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:You ready to shift gears and
switch into the personal questions.
649
:All right, Christine, coming out the
gate, what is a rabbit hole that you
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:could go down any day of the week?
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:I think
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:Christine: I try not to I know
there's people who like get
653
:caught up in conspiracy theories.
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:I try not to do that.
655
:But it definitely sometimes
you can't help it.
656
:But for me it's like my interest when
it's like, there's a book series I
657
:really love, or current, my current
rabbit hole obsession is Bridgerton.
658
:Only four episodes have
come out, but I'm obsessed.
659
:Alexandra: I mentioned in an episode,
I was like, I, you know, or we were
660
:talking and I was like, I binged a show.
661
:And then she was like, Wait, what show?
662
:Christine: is it
663
:Alexandra: And I was like, Third Vision.
664
:And she's Okay, we have to talk about it.
665
:Christine: do!
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:Oh my gosh, yes, we have, at length.
667
:Alexandra: And I'm sure we will
again when part two comes out,
668
:Christine: yes.
669
:So that's my current thing that I can
just go go down a rabbit hole on and I
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:just get caught, all caught up in it.
671
:And I'm sure people look at me
like, why are you re watching
672
:this show five or six times?
673
:I'm like,
674
:Alexandra: because I love it.
675
:Christine: it.
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:Alexandra: And it's so hot.
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:Christine: But yeah, I could easily
go down any sort of rabbit hole.
678
:Alex and I go down them frequently.
679
:I also love watching her and
her mom go down rabbit holes.
680
:I just listen
681
:Alexandra: Honestly.
682
:Christine: our phone conversations.
683
:I'm like, they go on a tangent.
684
:I'm like, okay, guys, where are we going?
685
:Where are we going to end
686
:Alexandra: I think that could be close to
a sport sometimes when we start talking.
687
:Christine: Yes, I would say you
and your mom are pros at that.
688
:What
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:About you?
690
:Alexandra: yeah.
691
:Well, mentioned a couple of times
this episode, I love witchy stuff,
692
:metaphysics spirituality stuff.
693
:I can go down the rabbit
hole on that all day long.
694
:love researching, but my, one
of my, the biggest things I
695
:love to look into is tarot.
696
:And maybe at some point we'll talk about.
697
:you know, cards and
divination and all that jazz.
698
:But a bit of a freak for tarot
699
:Christine: Yes, you are.
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:Alexandra: and yeah, Christine can
Attached to my bit of a habit when
701
:it comes to buying different decks.
702
:Not all tarot.
703
:I do have Oracle and Lenormand
and other things, but yep.
704
:A book about tarot, how to read tarot,
this like numerology and tarot, spell
705
:work and tarot, yeah, give it all to me.
706
:And I'd love to go.
707
:Christine: thinking out
your own book on tarot.
708
:You're outlining
709
:book.
710
:Like this girl, everything I know
about tarot is because of her.
711
:And has helped foster a love for myself.
712
:So yeah definitely rabbit hole.
713
:She loves to go down.
714
:Alexandra: The book is something that has
been put on the back burner with my last
715
:year of my MBA program, but it is still
percolating in the back of my mind and I
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:still keep thinking about it and what I
want it to be and how I want it to look.
717
:So yeah, that's a project coming up.
718
:But yeah, that's my rabbit
holes that sounded wrong.
719
:Okay.
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:That's my rabbit hole.
721
:I
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:Christine: That's your main one.
723
:Yeah.
724
:Alexandra: think we should cut that.
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:Christine: No.
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:I
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:Alexandra: Well, thanks, Christine.
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:Okay.
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:What is your current
favorites at the moment?
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:Some book, music, TV shows, activity.
731
:Rattle off.
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:Christine: mentioned
one already, Bridgerton.
733
:Excited for part two.
734
:I've been also rewatching,
I love procedural dramas.
735
:So I've,
736
:Alexandra: Okay.
737
:Christine: been, I recently
rewatched through 9 1 1 and I'm just
738
:started rewatching 9 1 1 Lone Star.
739
:just really enjoyed the format.
740
:I like The stories it tells.
741
:I mean, some of them are very crazy
and are, I sometimes wonder if it's
742
:realistic, not really, but yeah, right
743
:Alexandra: It's probably the drama.
744
:Christine: right now I'm
on a real big TV kick.
745
:Just
746
:Of things
747
:let's see.
748
:Earlier in the year I was like reading for
like obsessively, so a good audio book.
749
:I'm currently, I listened to Crescent
City, is the name, but Sarah J Maas.
750
:I listened.
751
:Alexandra: I, hilarious.
752
:I actually just started
that book, audio book.
753
:Christine: We're okay.
754
:We'll have to, I'm coming to visit Alex.
755
:Next weekend, so we'll have to
debrief and see where she's at.
756
:It's a long book.
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:I don't know where you
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:Alexandra: Okay.
759
:I think like chapter eight.
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:Christine: you, yeah,
you're just getting started.
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:So I've read the first one.
762
:I have started the second.
763
:I downloaded the third, so I'm
like ready to get all up in it.
764
:Music?
765
:Well, Beyonce came out with her
album a month or two ago, and I
766
:really have been enjoying that.
767
:Those who have watched Bridgerton will get
this reference, but I've had the Carriage
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:Scene song just on repeat in my head.
769
:It's got no words, y'all.
770
:It's just an instrumental, and the
violins It's my soundtrack to every day.
771
:Alexandra: You, you sent
me three different social
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:media posts of that in a row.
773
:I think she's a little
obsessed to be fair.
774
:I have to agree.
775
:I love how Bridgerton will take like
popular songs, like ABCDFU and like a
776
:bit of in string quartet and a bunch
of other ones will come in and make
777
:instrumental music to it, which I.
778
:I love, you know, I love classical music.
779
:So it's a real vibe.
780
:Christine: It is indeed.
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:Alexandra: Any activities
that you've been his
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:Christine: Oh, I feel like I had one
the other day and it escaped me.
783
:Hang on.
784
:It's Well, like coming down to
785
:see you next weekend, so I'm sure
you have some things in store.
786
:I'm looking forward
787
:Alexandra: Keep trying to convince
her we should go bowling, but I
788
:keep getting like response to it.
789
:Christine: go bowling, sure!
790
:What else?
791
:Just really looking forward
to going down to the beach.
792
:Summer's here.
793
:I love going down to the
shore and, playing in the
794
:ocean and soaking up some sun.
795
:Looking forward to
traveling a bit this summer.
796
:Yeah, those are,
797
:what's coming to mind
for me at the moment.
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:How about you?
799
:Alexandra: All right, so I'm going
to try and write them off real quick.
800
:The show's kind of split.
801
:I just rewatched a little
bit of Sweet Magnolias.
802
:I love that.
803
:I don't know, it's kind of a vibe.
804
:It makes me feel a little bit Gilmore
Girls, which, I don't know, I've been
805
:kind of hesitant to rewatch Gilmore Girls,
and I typically rewatch it about once a
806
:year or at least my favorite episodes.
807
:Bunheads because that was a
one season also by the writer
808
:and producer of Gilmore Girls.
809
:That's a good one.
810
:I got really into Netflix's
Dead Boy Detectives.
811
:Thought that was so fun.
812
:I'm like, I didn't even think
it would be a second season, so.
813
:back and rewatching something, so
I actually started rewatching um,
814
:CSI crime scene investigation, the
original one that started in:
815
:So I was like, okay, this is fun.
816
:I feel like I never saw season two.
817
:I was like, wow, this is all new.
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:Oh, music.
819
:As we talked about love music.
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:That's been instrumentalized
like modern music.
821
:That's cool.
822
:I love like at like academia, dark
academia, classical vibe music.
823
:But I have really Been getting into
EDM house trap techno music, which
824
:kind of relates into the activities.
825
:So I'm going to jump to that real quick.
826
:Trying to stay and get physically healthy.
827
:And I've mentioned, I have a Peloton,
I think, and I love hopping on.
828
:So You know, and when I just, my brain's
going around and Christine can attest to
829
:we both tend to overthink things a lot.
830
:I just hop on, or it's been like a
not great day and I can just hop on
831
:and lose myself in the music, which I
really, really like, and the instructor.
832
:So plus got such a vibe.
833
:And I really liked that.
834
:It's almost Never been to a rave.
835
:Don't know that I will go to.
836
:I feel like I enjoy my raves on the bike.
837
:But it's, I really love the music.
838
:Gets me super hyped.
839
:Trying to think.
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:Books.
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:I have really I'm starting
to enjoy Crescent City.
842
:It was a recommendation from
Funny enough, not you, Christine,
843
:but my coworker, Christina,
which we call, who we call Tina.
844
:And she was like, you just have to listen.
845
:I was like, okay, I'll do that.
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:So been on that.
847
:There's a, I'm going to save it
for another question later on.
848
:So I'll save that one.
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:Movies.
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:You know, like you, Christine, I think
I've been mostly watching TV recently.
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:Movies haven't Kind of in the mood to
rewatch the:
852
:Don't know why.
853
:Just been, like that's coming up.
854
:I want to see that.
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:But yeah, those are my current
favorites at the moment.
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:And activities, always.
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:reading tarot and oracle cards.
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:So that's always on the list.
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:But
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:Christine: definitely.
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:Alexandra: okay, Christine,
you ready for a hard one?
862
:Christine: Yeah.
863
:Alexandra: Okay.
864
:How would we describe
each other in three words?
865
:Christine: Well, if I was to
describe Alexandra in three words,
866
:I would say loyal motivational.
867
:Yes.
868
:I'm constantly in awe and motivated
the, at what Alexandra does, she
869
:also is such like a cheerleader for
the people she loves in her life.
870
:So I feel like, yeah, loyal, motivational,
and gosh, there's so many words!
871
:Loyal, motivational, and Joyful.
872
:Loyal, motivational, and joyful
are my three words to describe
873
:my dear friend, Alexandra.
874
:Aww.
875
:Alexandra: How can I sum up
you in three words, Christine?
876
:I don't know.
877
:Okay.
878
:First word.
879
:Sunshine.
880
:I
881
:feel like you're just always very
warm and bright and cheerful.
882
:Christine: Thank you.
883
:Alexandra: Sunshine.
884
:Giving.
885
:You're very generous with your time
and your kindness and always trying
886
:to make sure people feel supported.
887
:So you're very giving.
888
:Sunshine, giving and curious.
889
:I feel like when we talk, you're
always like, Oh, you learned something
890
:new about food at work, or you saw
something on Instagram or somewhere else.
891
:And you're like, Hey, did you hear?
892
:And so, sunshine, curious
and giving wrapped
893
:Christine: you.
894
:That's very sweet.
895
:Alexandra: up in a
896
:Christine: Oh, that's fun.
897
:We have, I love that we get, we have
these questions because we don't really
898
:think about these until someone asks.
899
:So,
900
:Alexandra: That could be a challenge.
901
:What if you had to quickly Instead of
having people's names in your phone or
902
:as the title for them, if you gave them
three words, that would be interesting
903
:to go through your contacts and
904
:Christine: be fun.
905
:Yeah, that's a fun, that's
a fun challenge for sure.
906
:Okay.
907
:Here's a, here's another good one.
908
:How has your friendship evolved
since starting the podcast?
909
:How has our friendship evolved?
910
:Alexandra: well, I think it's
grown deeper in many ways.
911
:I think, and also on a very practical
level in the sense of we're really
912
:good friends, but also learning each
other as like business partners,
913
:because Christine and I are as.
914
:very similar as we are.
915
:We're also so opposite.
916
:I'm a morning person.
917
:I'm like, hello, sunshine.
918
:And she is the night owl.
919
:And she's hello, evening.
920
:And both of us were like, Oh,
you've lost me at that time.
921
:Christine: it's
922
:Alexandra: So,
923
:Christine: one of your words
to describe me with sunshine
924
:and I'm not a morning person.
925
:Alexandra: no, but you have a
very just sunshine personality.
926
:Christine: getcha.
927
:Alexandra: So I think that's also, I
feel like for me, deep into my friendship
928
:with you is just okay, the learning.
929
:Each other's quirks in a
different way has also helped.
930
:But it's nice also to have a constant
point of we do this together.
931
:And also remembering to, to make
time to just call and catch up and do
932
:things that aren't podcast related.
933
:So balancing or harmonizing
between the two.
934
:what about you, Christine?
935
:Christine: No, I agree.
936
:I don't, I yeah, 100%.
937
:I don't have anything else to add.
938
:I agree with what you said.
939
:How to be business partners, but
also still prioritize our friendship
940
:and figuring out how we'll work
together on this creatively.
941
:Yeah.
942
:I just echo everything you said.
943
:Okay.
944
:Alexandra: Okay, Christine,
here's a fun one.
945
:Kind of relates, I think, to the
current favorites at the moment.
946
:But if you could switch lives
with a fictional character for
947
:a day, who would it be and why?
948
:TV show, books, you know,
949
:Christine: There's so
950
:Alexandra: whatever.
951
:Christine: Oh gosh, I've also, I've
consumed so much of everything, so.
952
:Well,
953
:Alexandra: I have a feeling
like maybe the carriage scene.
954
:Yeah.
955
:Christine: I've always loved Pride and
Prejudice, and that is Lizzie Bennet
956
:has been character archetype that I've
always sort of in the back of my brain
957
:and I love her journey in that story.
958
:So I would say Elizabeth Bennett.
959
:And then for the film and TV, sure,
I'd love to switch places with
960
:Nicola Coughlin in Bridgerton and
be Penelope Featherington for a day.
961
:Who wouldn't?
962
:I mean, Colin's hot, man.
963
:That, that
964
:Alexandra: I also love how they,
965
:Christine: ooh,
966
:Alexandra: I love how they address
the glow up in the beginning of the
967
:scene from Under What Foreign Sun.
968
:Christine: Oh, his go up.
969
:Yes.
970
:Alexandra: You know, I
mean, both of them, but yes.
971
:yeah,
972
:Christine: just, love how, know
it's all fictional, but the way that
973
:they, way with words that they have
both in Bridgerton and Jane Austen's
974
:storytelling, it's just so beautiful.
975
:Like it, it takes, I love
you to a whole nother level.
976
:It's also like
977
:love.
978
:It's like not only how you speak to those
you care about, but how you show you love.
979
:Those you care about.
980
:So about you?
981
:Alexandra: And really when I first
read this question, I was like, Oh,
982
:definitely a fantasy character, like
some main female lead with powers.
983
:And to be honest, all of it's kind
of fading out of my head, right?
984
:I'm like, I wouldn't
know which one to pick.
985
:There's so many that I really
like, but I'm trying to think of
986
:honestly, any book like that has
just gone completely out of my head.
987
:And I love so many
different, I really okay.
988
:There's two, two characters.
989
:In A Discovery of Witches, the
Diana, I really like her character.
990
:I think that's kind of a cool character.
991
:She has amazing abilities.
992
:I also love the fact that
she's an academia an academia,
993
:academic, an academic, sorry,
my words people I apologize.
994
:But that she's like, Studying
and researching at Oxford
995
:and just the library.
996
:So it kind of really taps into
something in me that I'm like, I love
997
:to study and learn about a lot of
stuff, but then also the practice and
998
:the witchcraft and the time travel.
999
:It's cool.
:
00:47:40,959 --> 00:47:41,249
It's cool.
:
00:47:41,279 --> 00:47:41,639
Right?
:
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:42,079
Love it.
:
00:47:43,069 --> 00:47:45,659
But another fictional,
not fantasy character.
:
00:47:45,659 --> 00:47:49,378
I like there's a book by Helena
hunting that I listened to audio
:
00:47:49,378 --> 00:47:54,293
book because I really liked the voice
performer and how she narrates things.
:
00:47:54,383 --> 00:47:55,833
It was, oh, what was it called?
:
00:47:57,523 --> 00:47:58,383
Hold on, I gotta look it up.
:
00:47:58,933 --> 00:48:00,733
I should know this one
because I like it so much.
:
00:48:02,603 --> 00:48:07,523
If you hate me I would want to
be Beatrix or Rix because just
:
00:48:09,753 --> 00:48:13,090
some really um, if you've read or
listened to the book, you know.
:
00:48:13,130 --> 00:48:15,362
If you don't, go listen to it because
:
00:48:16,497 --> 00:48:17,647
Christine: Get in the know, everyone.
:
00:48:17,737 --> 00:48:19,707
Ah, yeah, I guess I have
to add this to my list.
:
00:48:20,327 --> 00:48:21,547
Alexandra: Yes, it's good.
:
00:48:21,547 --> 00:48:22,967
I've learned some things about myself.
:
00:48:24,692 --> 00:48:25,312
Christine: Noted.
:
00:48:25,507 --> 00:48:25,917
Alexandra: it's just
:
00:48:26,107 --> 00:48:28,767
Enemies to lovers, but
not really total enemies.
:
00:48:28,817 --> 00:48:30,817
It's just, I like it.
:
00:48:31,027 --> 00:48:32,717
I think the characters
have a bit more depth.
:
00:48:32,767 --> 00:48:35,257
You know, if you really think about
it, it's like Pride and Prejudice.
:
00:48:35,257 --> 00:48:37,387
I think so many people can go
Oh, it's Pride and Prejudice.
:
00:48:37,467 --> 00:48:39,048
It's just write it off.
:
00:48:39,048 --> 00:48:42,308
But I think I typically listen
or read to it about once a year.
:
00:48:42,308 --> 00:48:43,678
And there's so much
depth to the characters.
:
00:48:43,678 --> 00:48:47,508
If you kind of dissect it a little
bit more, but that's what I would do.
:
00:48:47,938 --> 00:48:51,828
If you had to eat food, one food
type of food for the rest of your
:
00:48:51,828 --> 00:48:53,338
life, first team, what would it be?
:
00:48:53,834 --> 00:48:56,304
Christine: Well, I think I should
pick something that can be versed
:
00:48:56,407 --> 00:49:01,447
well, are we literally thinking
like one food item or like a meal?
:
00:49:02,862 --> 00:49:04,252
Alexandra: Whatever, what would you like?
:
00:49:04,302 --> 00:49:06,442
Christine: Well, I was sort of
thinking well, maybe I should pick like
:
00:49:06,452 --> 00:49:08,832
pizza or something that I can like.
:
00:49:09,852 --> 00:49:14,862
up, like it's the same type of meal, but
it's, I can be a little creative with it.
:
00:49:15,222 --> 00:49:16,092
Well, okay.
:
00:49:16,482 --> 00:49:18,482
I had to eat one thing
for the rest of my life.
:
00:49:20,962 --> 00:49:23,462
I love a potato any form.
:
00:49:23,942 --> 00:49:25,382
Chip, fry
:
00:49:25,872 --> 00:49:26,472
Alexandra: Home fry.
:
00:49:26,547 --> 00:49:30,987
Christine: fry, hash brown
Just naming potato forms.
:
00:49:32,024 --> 00:49:34,744
Yeah, I w I guess I would
say it's a good one.
:
00:49:34,754 --> 00:49:36,484
That starch is good.
:
00:49:38,204 --> 00:49:38,964
Alexandra: So tasty.
:
00:49:39,574 --> 00:49:40,564
Kind of like you, Christine.
:
00:49:40,564 --> 00:49:42,994
I think if I had to pick something
that was versatile, I almost would
:
00:49:42,994 --> 00:49:46,624
say salad because then you can
throw any sort of topping, but you
:
00:49:46,624 --> 00:49:48,234
can also change the lettuce type.
:
00:49:48,344 --> 00:49:49,824
But that feels a little cliche.
:
00:49:49,884 --> 00:49:50,274
Okay.
:
00:49:50,794 --> 00:49:55,044
Here, if you could only eat one
dessert and that was the only
:
00:49:55,044 --> 00:49:56,894
dessert you could have your first
of your life, what would you have?
:
00:49:56,944 --> 00:49:58,214
Christine: be like, you'd pick salad.
:
00:49:58,214 --> 00:49:59,044
I pick potato.
:
00:50:00,874 --> 00:50:02,754
We would be very interesting people.
:
00:50:03,084 --> 00:50:03,414
Okay.
:
00:50:03,454 --> 00:50:08,194
I like this dessert currently
soft serve ice cream on a
:
00:50:08,194 --> 00:50:09,414
cone with rainbow sprinkles.
:
00:50:10,684 --> 00:50:15,404
Loving that and I think it's because
summertime is here, but that's my
:
00:50:15,414 --> 00:50:19,594
current favorite dessert And I could
eat that for the rest of my life
:
00:50:19,594 --> 00:50:26,244
right now, but I'm sure that'll
change in a month but currently
:
00:50:27,289 --> 00:50:28,569
Alexandra: Variety is the spice of life.
:
00:50:28,694 --> 00:50:29,414
Christine: How about you?
:
00:50:29,479 --> 00:50:30,149
Not
:
00:50:30,346 --> 00:50:32,156
Alexandra: I'm trying to think
of something that I really enjoy.
:
00:50:32,206 --> 00:50:35,166
I'm either thinking
truffles or macarons, right?
:
00:50:35,166 --> 00:50:39,666
Because the flavors can be different, but
I really enjoy the texture of a macaron.
:
00:50:39,696 --> 00:50:42,276
And then I really enjoy the
texture of a good truffle.
:
00:50:42,816 --> 00:50:43,656
Chocolate truffle
:
00:50:43,696 --> 00:50:45,436
just, yeah.
:
00:50:45,846 --> 00:50:47,256
So yeah, one of those two, I think.
:
00:50:47,866 --> 00:50:49,906
I had to have one to serve the
rest of my life, that'd be it.
:
00:50:50,926 --> 00:50:51,756
Christine: Those are great.
:
00:50:52,476 --> 00:50:54,176
love a macaron and I love a truffle.
:
00:50:55,136 --> 00:50:59,516
Okay, if you could time travel,
what era would you visit and why?
:
00:51:00,956 --> 00:51:03,396
Alexandra: Oh, I don't, oh, visit.
:
00:51:03,456 --> 00:51:03,786
Okay.
:
00:51:03,786 --> 00:51:05,026
At least I don't have to live there.
:
00:51:05,596 --> 00:51:08,996
Christine: You're coming back
to the 21st century, eventually.
:
00:51:10,133 --> 00:51:10,593
Alexandra: I don't know.
:
00:51:10,593 --> 00:51:15,783
I feel like visiting the area, the era
of Bridgerton, like to Regency, like
:
00:51:15,813 --> 00:51:17,968
Victorian, or like kind of around that.
:
00:51:17,968 --> 00:51:19,108
That would be cool to visit.
:
00:51:19,218 --> 00:51:21,158
I think, I don't know if I've
mentioned it on the podcast.
:
00:51:21,518 --> 00:51:23,688
I'm a huge fan of modern indoor plumbing.
:
00:51:23,788 --> 00:51:27,198
So living in the past, I've had
people who were like, Oh my gosh, you
:
00:51:27,198 --> 00:51:29,838
would do so well in a different past.
:
00:51:29,838 --> 00:51:33,688
And I'm like, I literally just finished
saying I prefer modern plumbing.
:
00:51:33,978 --> 00:51:34,238
So
:
00:51:35,128 --> 00:51:36,008
that, yeah.
:
00:51:36,008 --> 00:51:37,978
What about you what era or period?
:
00:51:37,978 --> 00:51:39,914
Yeah.
:
00:51:39,914 --> 00:51:41,851
Yeah.
:
00:51:41,851 --> 00:51:43,788
Okay.
:
00:51:43,903 --> 00:51:49,303
Christine: I, I definitely Sort of
have a nostalgia for decades of the
:
00:51:49,303 --> 00:51:56,633
past, but definitely like style,
not values that kind of a vibe.
:
00:51:57,023 --> 00:52:03,143
So, I mean, I love the the romantization
of the twenties like flappers and,
:
00:52:04,833 --> 00:52:11,243
the parties and the jazz and the sort
of, I feel like the twenties sort of.
:
00:52:11,658 --> 00:52:17,528
mimics Regency era as well, cause
both times were very sort of luxurious
:
00:52:17,648 --> 00:52:23,438
and indulgent, like that kind of, but
then like just juxtaposing that the
:
00:52:23,448 --> 00:52:30,528
twenties, I also really have a for the
forties and the like when Frank Sinatra
:
00:52:30,798 --> 00:52:33,258
and the crooners sort of came out.
:
00:52:33,628 --> 00:52:39,018
So Yeah, those, I would love to visit
any of those eras just to visit.
:
00:52:39,358 --> 00:52:40,408
And then, uh.
:
00:52:40,892 --> 00:52:42,652
I'll even throw like another one in there.
:
00:52:42,652 --> 00:52:45,462
I'd love to visit the seventies
and eighties, like the
:
00:52:45,492 --> 00:52:47,012
era of my parents grew up.
:
00:52:47,122 --> 00:52:50,882
Just because my, my, the, that,
that music sort of influenced
:
00:52:51,472 --> 00:52:53,322
Frank Sinatra, why I bring him up.
:
00:52:53,332 --> 00:52:54,692
My mom loves him.
:
00:52:54,792 --> 00:52:58,102
Listen to his music all the time
growing up, but the seventies,
:
00:52:58,132 --> 00:53:02,382
eighties rock was like my dad's
is my dad's bread and butter.
:
00:53:02,382 --> 00:53:06,722
And I have such fond memories
thinking back to listening
:
00:53:06,722 --> 00:53:08,762
to that music in summer time.
:
00:53:08,762 --> 00:53:16,842
And so I'd love to visit that time and
sort of to experience how parents grew up.
:
00:53:16,942 --> 00:53:19,062
So yeah, I know I can't
just pick one guys.
:
00:53:19,122 --> 00:53:19,752
I'm sorry.
:
00:53:19,872 --> 00:53:20,622
Just can't pick one.
:
00:53:21,957 --> 00:53:24,317
Alexandra: This is also why our
friendship works because neither
:
00:53:24,317 --> 00:53:25,987
of us can just go, this one thing.
:
00:53:26,437 --> 00:53:26,877
But yeah,
:
00:53:27,527 --> 00:53:27,747
So
:
00:53:27,782 --> 00:53:28,442
Christine: like this one.
:
00:53:29,192 --> 00:53:31,712
What's your favorite way
to unwind after a long day?
:
00:53:32,428 --> 00:53:35,648
Alexandra: I think I mentioned it
earlier it was the writing on the
:
00:53:35,898 --> 00:53:41,128
Peloton or working out mostly because it
feels like right now I've, as you have
:
00:53:41,128 --> 00:53:42,878
mentioned my schedule is pretty packed.
:
00:53:43,008 --> 00:53:43,528
So yeah.
:
00:53:46,148 --> 00:53:51,438
I really enjoy working out and I'm like,
I don't have time to go to a separate gym.
:
00:53:51,478 --> 00:53:53,358
So I really love the Peloton platform.
:
00:53:53,388 --> 00:53:56,748
And I love that I can get on and
I can ride, or I can be a bit more
:
00:53:56,748 --> 00:54:01,428
mellow and do yoga, or I can kill
my legs doing strength training.
:
00:54:01,428 --> 00:54:04,808
I think I did a leg workout
like a week ago and the
:
00:54:04,958 --> 00:54:05,128
Christine: You're still
:
00:54:05,358 --> 00:54:06,528
Alexandra: next day I was like, ow.
:
00:54:07,533 --> 00:54:08,263
I don't know.
:
00:54:08,263 --> 00:54:12,733
I was like, I just have to do it more
frequently, but it is really nice.
:
00:54:12,873 --> 00:54:19,733
So definitely on a like a long, hard day,
I will put on a EDM house trap techno ride
:
00:54:20,183 --> 00:54:22,633
and just get lost in the beat and just go.
:
00:54:22,873 --> 00:54:23,363
And I love it.
:
00:54:24,033 --> 00:54:24,993
But what about you, Christine?
:
00:54:25,033 --> 00:54:26,373
How do you like to unwind?
:
00:54:26,518 --> 00:54:26,998
Christine: Oh.
:
00:54:27,288 --> 00:54:35,518
Usually after a long day, I love the
stillness that comes when I come home.
:
00:54:35,688 --> 00:54:37,348
Living alone allows for that.
:
00:54:39,118 --> 00:54:42,518
So I just come home and I
sort of let my mind go blank.
:
00:54:42,898 --> 00:54:49,314
I just, when I can, when I'm not super
stressed or anxious, and I throw
:
00:54:49,314 --> 00:54:51,849
on an audiobook, Put some music on.
:
00:54:52,499 --> 00:54:57,239
I'm also loving I've struggled
with because I live alone cooking
:
00:54:57,249 --> 00:54:58,939
for myself just as one person.
:
00:54:58,939 --> 00:55:04,099
Cooking for one is a hard concept at
times, but with my current job, I'm
:
00:55:04,109 --> 00:55:07,549
around cooking and food all the time.
:
00:55:09,049 --> 00:55:15,634
I feel like that for me is something
I I'm enjoying and helps me unwind.
:
00:55:15,654 --> 00:55:18,584
I don't like the dishes part of
things as everyone knows now.
:
00:55:19,034 --> 00:55:19,594
Thanks mom.
:
00:55:19,904 --> 00:55:24,944
But yeah, I would say I come home
and I just sort of, I get comfy,
:
00:55:25,914 --> 00:55:34,264
something yummy pop on a TV show or
call someone I love FaceTiming you, or.
:
00:55:34,759 --> 00:55:41,219
It's my friend Tori, or my mom, or
sisters, and just sort of catching up
:
00:55:41,219 --> 00:55:45,866
with everyone because life can get so
busy it's important to check in with those
:
00:55:45,866 --> 00:55:47,846
people and see how their life's going.
:
00:55:48,106 --> 00:55:49,956
So that's kind of how I like to unwind.
:
00:55:50,417 --> 00:55:54,087
Alexandra: You've definitely pulled
me out of some low days when you call.
:
00:55:54,107 --> 00:55:54,717
So I
:
00:55:55,257 --> 00:55:56,047
appreciate you.
:
00:55:56,122 --> 00:55:57,032
Christine: Oh, I appreciate you too.
:
00:55:58,692 --> 00:55:59,182
It's a love
:
00:55:59,812 --> 00:56:00,592
the Mirror Project.
:
00:56:02,367 --> 00:56:06,127
Alexandra: So this question comes
from my friend, who we've had on
:
00:56:06,127 --> 00:56:08,267
this podcast and I am so excited.
:
00:56:08,467 --> 00:56:10,447
She is amazing.
:
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Asking questions that make you think
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or make you laugh.
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So this question is for her.
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What is the male equivalent
of receiving flowers?
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00:56:18,717 --> 00:56:22,287
She was thinking one day how women
get flowers as sweet mementos
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on anniversaries or just because
but is there a parallel for men?
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Christine: It's so, and I love
Traveris and her questions.
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00:56:30,575 --> 00:56:35,645
In my opinion, does there have to
be an equivalent get men flowers?
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00:56:35,825 --> 00:56:37,895
I think I love that idea.
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last year for father's day,
I brought my dad flowers.
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00:56:41,241 --> 00:56:42,721
I think just normalizing it.
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Flowers are beautiful
and men deserve that too.
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I'm all for just because
I, that's my opinion.
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What do you think?
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Alexandra: So yesterday when I got this
text message I was, doing readings.
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00:56:56,408 --> 00:57:00,318
And I walked out to somebody who
was working at the shop where
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I do readings once a month.
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00:57:02,088 --> 00:57:06,578
And I asked her the question and she
said her husband really likes flowers.
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00:57:06,958 --> 00:57:09,078
And she was like, why, what did you say?
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00:57:09,108 --> 00:57:13,778
And so I had said, I had texted my friend
back and I said my first thought was sex,
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00:57:13,778 --> 00:57:15,668
but that might be oversimplifying it.
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00:57:16,208 --> 00:57:16,608
Or.
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00:57:16,953 --> 00:57:20,623
I think before I said that or I showed
her the response and then she's well, why
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00:57:20,623 --> 00:57:22,953
don't you ask a young man who works there?
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00:57:22,963 --> 00:57:26,373
And so I was like, Hey, what
do you like instead of flowers?
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00:57:26,373 --> 00:57:30,703
What would you like to get from you
know, your girlfriend or something?
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00:57:31,173 --> 00:57:34,393
And he was saying a lot
of the guys that he knows.
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00:57:35,513 --> 00:57:36,793
Kind of they're very busy.
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00:57:36,843 --> 00:57:41,383
So they like time with their partner
doing something that they maybe
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enjoy, which would be dependent on
the the person the guy in your life.
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00:57:44,313 --> 00:57:46,477
And he's like, what'd you say?
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00:57:46,546 --> 00:57:49,872
It's like sex, just sex.
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00:57:50,252 --> 00:57:52,702
So that might be oversimplifying
it, but I feel you know,
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that might be also something
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Christine: All right.
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Yeah.
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00:57:55,347 --> 00:57:56,567
I mean, Hey, that works too.
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00:57:56,607 --> 00:57:57,467
I'm down for that.
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00:57:58,492 --> 00:58:01,012
Alexandra: clearly my mind is in
the gutter and it's been a while.
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00:58:01,142 --> 00:58:03,322
So, but I just laughed at that one.
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00:58:03,322 --> 00:58:04,192
That was really fun.
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00:58:04,252 --> 00:58:05,482
Christine: Think I love that.
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I love quality time of all
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00:58:08,857 --> 00:58:10,087
Alexandra: however, that time in Spain.
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00:58:10,752 --> 00:58:15,572
Christine: I, but I also think, you know,
get the flowers, give them the flowers.
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00:58:16,002 --> 00:58:19,482
If you see a flower, it makes
you think of them, get it.
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Alexandra: And I think then
Traveris had said texted me back.
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00:58:22,057 --> 00:58:23,157
She's she's heard food.
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Food is the way like to a man's
heart is through his stomach.
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So
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Christine: Alright.
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00:58:30,527 --> 00:58:31,167
Alexandra: yeah, that was fun.
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Christine: Okay.
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00:58:32,127 --> 00:58:34,257
Alexandra: I was like, I have
to share that story because my
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mind went straight to the gutter.
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00:58:36,872 --> 00:58:38,082
Christine: Oh, Alexandra.
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00:58:38,932 --> 00:58:39,822
silly Alexandra.
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Okay.
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Yeah, these next several questions
are courtesy of Traveris.
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00:58:45,672 --> 00:58:47,202
So thank you for that.
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Are there any parts of your
life that feel performative?
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00:58:49,433 --> 00:58:53,652
Are you performing for,
who are you performing for?
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00:58:53,712 --> 00:58:54,182
Others?
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00:58:54,517 --> 00:58:55,237
Or yourself.
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00:58:56,067 --> 00:58:59,127
parts of your life do you feel you
show up the most authentically?
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That is
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Alexandra: Oh, wow.
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00:59:01,647 --> 00:59:02,157
Christine: in one.
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Alexandra: Honestly, that could
be a whole topic on its own.
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00:59:07,117 --> 00:59:07,947
Christine: it really can.
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Episode topic.
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00:59:10,187 --> 00:59:11,757
You heard it here first, folks.
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00:59:13,077 --> 00:59:13,607
Alexandra: All right.
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00:59:14,062 --> 00:59:15,592
Let's rapid fire it, Christine.
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00:59:15,692 --> 00:59:17,112
Quickly, what would you say?
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00:59:17,357 --> 00:59:24,397
Christine: Yes, others because
I'm an introvert and I feel like
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00:59:24,457 --> 00:59:26,737
the world favors extroverts.
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00:59:27,127 --> 00:59:32,177
So I feel like I have to perform, put on a
per, like a performance version of myself.
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00:59:32,497 --> 00:59:37,057
And only around those like family
found family, dear friends.
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00:59:37,057 --> 00:59:38,967
Do I feel like I let that down?
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00:59:39,407 --> 00:59:43,417
But I work in retail, so I feel like
there's an aspect of that's performative.
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00:59:43,837 --> 00:59:47,357
What parts do you feel you
show up most authentically?
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00:59:48,402 --> 00:59:52,078
My, my friend's family,
here, honestly, too.
:
00:59:52,118 --> 00:59:52,258
I
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00:59:52,728 --> 00:59:53,928
this isn't a performance.
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00:59:54,058 --> 00:59:55,588
I would say that rapid fire.
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00:59:55,618 --> 00:59:56,508
How about you go
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00:59:57,658 --> 00:59:58,168
Alexandra: Okay.
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Yes, a mixture of both myself and others.
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01:00:01,830 --> 01:00:05,830
Because I feel, weirdly enough, some of
my family don't feel very comfortable
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01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:08,620
around, so I feel like I have to
put on a different version of me.
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01:00:09,020 --> 01:00:12,440
Same at work, I feel like there's like
professional Alexandra versus personal,
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01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:17,150
although I am working to kind of break
down those walls and integrate more fully.
:
01:00:17,630 --> 01:00:19,900
What do I, where do I
show up authentically?
:
01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:23,017
I feel like, you know, with some of
my really close friends, a lot of
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01:00:23,017 --> 01:00:26,917
the found family I have, I don't feel
the need to, you know, hide who I am
:
01:00:26,917 --> 01:00:31,277
authentically because that's how I
met them, which is really cool here
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01:00:31,277 --> 01:00:32,977
with you, Christine always with you.
:
01:00:32,977 --> 01:00:36,782
I can just say Hey, You know, I can
say anything to Christine and she's
:
01:00:36,942 --> 01:00:38,662
not Oh my gosh, no, don't share that.
:
01:00:39,232 --> 01:00:47,412
And when I am doing my readings and
stuff for people, I feel like stepping
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01:00:47,412 --> 01:00:51,702
into that version of me, which is,
feels more like me feels very authentic.
:
01:00:51,882 --> 01:00:53,172
So bringing that forward,
:
01:00:54,357 --> 01:00:54,537
Christine: All
:
01:00:54,702 --> 01:00:56,412
Alexandra: I feel like, but I
do feel like we need to come
:
01:00:56,412 --> 01:00:57,352
back to this as a whole episode.
:
01:00:57,392 --> 01:00:58,782
Christine: Whole topic, whole episode,
:
01:00:59,808 --> 01:01:01,468
Alexandra: Another heavy
hitter from Traveris.
:
01:01:01,928 --> 01:01:04,548
What is one area of your
life you self sabotage in?
:
01:01:05,325 --> 01:01:06,285
Christine: Oh gosh.
:
01:01:06,345 --> 01:01:09,345
I feel like I self sabotage
myself a lot of times.
:
01:01:09,405 --> 01:01:12,095
Like it's my relationships with others.
:
01:01:12,445 --> 01:01:17,825
My confidence in the workplace have
grown exponentially, but I still feel
:
01:01:17,825 --> 01:01:24,535
like When it comes to myself, when I
tend to like, I'm my own worst critic.
:
01:01:24,585 --> 01:01:26,895
So I feel like that's one
area that I need to work on.
:
01:01:26,945 --> 01:01:29,015
That's where I self
sabotage a lot at the time.
:
01:01:29,115 --> 01:01:29,495
Yeah.
:
01:01:29,575 --> 01:01:30,095
How about you?
:
01:01:30,630 --> 01:01:32,250
Alexandra: Yes, I do self sabotage.
:
01:01:32,330 --> 01:01:36,850
Working very hard in therapy
to not do that so much anymore.
:
01:01:37,250 --> 01:01:40,080
I feel like a big one has been my health.
:
01:01:40,630 --> 01:01:44,980
Mostly because for 15 years I struggled,
you know, with an eating disorder and
:
01:01:44,980 --> 01:01:48,680
losing weight and nothing was working
and I think I would give up too easily.
:
01:01:48,690 --> 01:01:51,010
So I think I would self sabotage in
that way when it wasn't happening
:
01:01:51,010 --> 01:01:53,110
quickly enough, then I would just go up.
:
01:01:53,230 --> 01:01:55,730
So that is an area that I
am currently turning around.
:
01:01:56,450 --> 01:02:01,230
But I also like you, Christine, I
think I self sabotage in areas of
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01:02:01,230 --> 01:02:03,650
confidence and putting myself out there.
:
01:02:03,650 --> 01:02:06,520
So I really appreciate that
this project that we're doing
:
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:08,490
is an opportunity to work on it.
:
01:02:09,090 --> 01:02:11,420
weekly, you know, so.
:
01:02:11,625 --> 01:02:12,435
Christine: absolutely.
:
01:02:12,861 --> 01:02:13,451
All right.
:
01:02:13,736 --> 01:02:14,196
Alexandra: right.
:
01:02:14,401 --> 01:02:14,871
Christine: Last one.
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01:02:15,781 --> 01:02:17,701
is another episode topic.
:
01:02:19,161 --> 01:02:21,571
Okay, I'm going to start with this quote.
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01:02:22,731 --> 01:02:25,251
Anger is the part of you
that loves you the most.
:
01:02:28,791 --> 01:02:32,031
Anger is usually present
as an indicator, right?
:
01:02:33,241 --> 01:02:35,021
what's your relationship with anger?
:
01:02:35,031 --> 01:02:40,581
Do you listen to it or suppress it because
you feel it is to mean a negative emotion?
:
01:02:41,879 --> 01:02:42,399
Alexandra: Okay.
:
01:02:43,219 --> 01:02:43,659
Whoa.
:
01:02:44,929 --> 01:02:48,609
I feel like this ties into the last
question about self sabotage because
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01:02:49,040 --> 01:02:51,510
I think I would for a long time.
:
01:02:51,510 --> 01:02:54,300
And I want to say maybe the past
five, six months is when I really
:
01:02:54,340 --> 01:02:59,550
started changing my relationship
with emotions and feeling and not,
:
01:02:59,820 --> 01:03:03,570
Shoving it down or like suppressing
it as yeah, this is a negative motion.
:
01:03:03,570 --> 01:03:07,260
I don't want to be an angry
person versus listening to
:
01:03:07,270 --> 01:03:08,820
what is that anger telling me.
:
01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:11,010
So I feel like I have a better
relationship with anger.
:
01:03:11,010 --> 01:03:16,520
I'm using it more as a, like a barometric
tool pressure of like, where am I
:
01:03:16,670 --> 01:03:21,680
sitting with this and why am I so
angry and using it as a cue to explore.
:
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:23,030
But what about you, Christine?
:
01:03:24,035 --> 01:03:31,055
Christine: Yeah, my, my relationship with
anger, for me, agree anger when is when
:
01:03:31,055 --> 01:03:33,055
anger is present is usually indicator.
:
01:03:33,065 --> 01:03:36,275
And I feel like it's sort
of one of the last emotions.
:
01:03:36,515 --> 01:03:40,535
It's like when you really know something
is and it's, something's bothering you.
:
01:03:40,585 --> 01:03:43,435
Some, you need to figure out like,
what's the underlying thing here.
:
01:03:43,435 --> 01:03:47,165
Cause I feel like that only
presents itself once you get to a
:
01:03:47,165 --> 01:03:49,285
point a last straw kind of thing.
:
01:03:49,995 --> 01:03:54,178
So my relationship with anger is,
you know, actually don't think it's,
:
01:03:54,378 --> 01:04:00,468
I mean, yes, how people act on anger
can be negative, but I don't think
:
01:04:00,478 --> 01:04:02,668
anger itself is a negative emotion.
:
01:04:02,968 --> 01:04:03,518
I think
:
01:04:04,308 --> 01:04:04,658
Alexandra: Yeah.
:
01:04:04,728 --> 01:04:10,568
Christine: It's one of the many
your body or subconscious makes you
:
01:04:11,428 --> 01:04:13,782
sort of understand what's going on.
:
01:04:14,052 --> 01:04:15,132
When something's wrong.
:
01:04:15,522 --> 01:04:18,682
I do listen to it and I
don't let it control me.
:
01:04:18,702 --> 01:04:20,272
I try not to let it control me.
:
01:04:20,612 --> 01:04:22,812
And it usually takes
a lot to get me angry.
:
01:04:22,872 --> 01:04:26,672
I would say, I don't know if you
agree, but I feel like I tend to
:
01:04:26,962 --> 01:04:28,802
become when I become frustrated.
:
01:04:29,542 --> 01:04:32,982
In the past, I've been like,
I shut down that's my my.
:
01:04:33,267 --> 01:04:34,907
Alexandra: Instead of
lashing out, you go down,
:
01:04:35,507 --> 01:04:40,751
Christine: coping mechanism is I shut
down usually, and I'm not trying to
:
01:04:40,801 --> 01:04:45,431
necessarily suppress it, but it's a way
like how I react and try and protect
:
01:04:45,431 --> 01:04:51,151
myself in certain situations, but when I
do get angry, it's usually when people I
:
01:04:51,151 --> 01:04:58,438
love most are hurt or are hurting And I
would love to talk on length about this.
:
01:04:58,448 --> 01:05:02,428
So I think this is an episode
topic that we should revisit,
:
01:05:02,448 --> 01:05:04,518
but where I'll stop for now.
:
01:05:05,748 --> 01:05:08,428
Alexandra: So that's two episodes
we have to put on our episodes topic
:
01:05:08,428 --> 01:05:13,358
list for:consider and put back in, in rotation.
:
01:05:14,185 --> 01:05:15,835
Well, wow.
:
01:05:16,625 --> 01:05:17,095
Okay.
:
01:05:17,154 --> 01:05:22,945
Christine: thought this was going
to be a quick episode, but yes,
:
01:05:22,975 --> 01:05:25,365
Alexandra: I was like,
not what we get going.
:
01:05:25,865 --> 01:05:26,285
Okay.
:
01:05:26,325 --> 01:05:26,575
Wow.
:
01:05:26,575 --> 01:05:28,465
What an incredible set of questions.
:
01:05:28,575 --> 01:05:29,765
I feel like I had a blast.
:
01:05:29,895 --> 01:05:30,845
Christine, what about you?
:
01:05:31,398 --> 01:05:32,098
Christine: yes, Yes.
:
01:05:32,498 --> 01:05:33,188
So much fun.
:
01:05:33,458 --> 01:05:36,178
Alexandra: Diving into these
were so much fun and sharing some
:
01:05:36,218 --> 01:05:38,008
insights about us with all of you.
:
01:05:38,588 --> 01:05:41,058
I hope everyone listening
enjoyed this special listener
:
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Q and a as much as we did.
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01:05:42,598 --> 01:05:45,138
And these questions certainly
brought smiles to our faces.
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